Today’s trending world, parents have to suffer a lot to maintain the balance of there budgets. We parents want to give our little ones the best of all. I see it as the biggest challenge for parents to fulfill there children’s list of desires. When we fail to fulfill they get fustrated and that irritation will soon turn in to tantrums and later into disobedience.
So parents can use my mom’s technic to overcome such a problem. Mom teached us to use the saved money to purchase our desired items. One more tip which I can give, which I had tried myself on my 9 year old. Which I call “A Budget Allowed”. Whenever we go for shopping I allowed her a budget, with which she can buy her toys, comics, gifts as her desire. I was amazed at the result I got, she started behaving like a responsible toy shopper, she learned to share, save for friends gifts calculated by herself each time. Later on she began to plan in advance and she realise, she has to get her toys from her budget so she started to make better use of it rather than toys only. Trust me guys I felt empowered of her and gave her a hug and appreciated, I feel kids need that more than money.
I shared this with my friends, fellow moms, they practiced same and her son who is the same age of my daughter he buys toys n save money n next purchase he buys for himself and his cousin’s and lastly he saves and bought a gift for his mom. Isn’t it good behaviour they learned caring same time. And eventually they will learn to manage money.
Try on this am so sure parents will see their kids change into superKids. And most important of all, this will bring an end to the embarrassment you had to deal with your kids trantrums at shopping, bcoz now your kid will be responsible and understand he is already provided with the allowance and it’s his responsibility now to spend on his desires.
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